$14.99 once.
That's the price.
Premium, members-only access to the hidden rooms. No subscription, no renewals, no upgrades — pay the door fee once and you get everything, for as long as you're a member.
Join for $14.99Included
- ✓Every chat room, including rooms for each part of New Zealand
- ✓A contact list with statuses, personal messages and display pictures
- ✓Unlimited private messages and group chats, emoticons and nudges
- ✓Your own display name and profile photo
- ✓Sign-in and message pop-ups
- ✓Opt-in R18 channels and consent-based photo sharing
- ✓Blocking, reporting and real moderators
Members only
What the door fee gets you
One entry, the whole club. Everything below comes with it — nothing is locked behind a higher tier.
Hidden from Google
Every room, profile and message sits behind the door. Search engines and non-members never see inside.
Stealth mode
Go cloaked: appear offline on everyone's contact list and still see exactly who's around.
Classified details
Your email and date of birth are never shown to anyone. Other members see your age — that's it.
Off-the-grid entry
$14.99 once, in crypto. No card details, no bank transfer — nothing from us on your card statement.
Self-destructing photos
Photos in private messages are seen only by the person you send them to, and delete themselves after 7 days. Unsend any time.
Low-key by design
No real name, no phone number, no Facebook login. Pick a username and change your display name whenever you like.
The after-dark rooms
The R18 rooms stay secret — they don't even show up until you switch them on. Off again in one click.
Premium, with no tiers
No ads, no upsells, no gold memberships. Everyone inside gets everything for one $14.99 entry.
How it compares
Published prices, checked 11 October 2026. Prices change — check each site before you buy.
myQR
$14.99, once
One-off entry. Nothing more to pay — everything is included.
NZDating Gold
- How you pay
- Subscription
- Monthly
- $18.95 a month
- A year
- $69.95 for 12 months
- Free
- Free members can message, chat and use message boards; Gold adds extras like seeing who's online and emoticons.
Source: nzdating.com/gold
AdultFriendFinder Gold
- How you pay
- Subscription (US dollars)
- Monthly
- About US$25 a month
- A year
- About US$179 for 12 months
- Free
- Free accounts are limited; most messaging needs Gold.
Source: DatingAdvice, updated Sept 2026
Swipe apps (Tinder, Bumble, Hinge)
- How you pay
- Free app with paid tiers
- Monthly
- Varies by plan and age — shown in the app
- A year
- Varies
- Free
- Free to match and message; paid tiers add likes, boosts and filters.
Source: Prices are shown inside each app
More detail in What NZ dating and chat sites really cost.
Paid in crypto
You choose the coin on a secure invoice page run by our payment provider, NOWPayments. Your account stays pending until the payment confirms, then opens automatically. There's no card stored anywhere, so nothing can be charged again.
First time paying with crypto? Read the guide- Litecoin (LTC)Lowest fees for small payments — confirms in minutes
- USDT on Tron (TRC20)Very low fees; worth a US dollar per coin
- Solana (SOL)Very low fees, near-instant
- Bitcoin (BTC)Accepted, but network fees can be high for a small payment
- Ethereum (ETH)Accepted, but network fees can be high for a small payment
Payment questions
How much does it cost?
$14.99, once. There's no subscription, nothing renews, and every member gets every feature.
Why do you only take crypto?
Many card processors won't work with sites that offer adult chat, and the ones that do charge high fees. Crypto keeps entry at $14.99, and there's no stored card that could be charged again. You can pay with Bitcoin, Ethereum, Litecoin, Solana, USDT and more — Litecoin or USDT on Tron have the lowest fees for small payments.
How long until my account opens?
Your account stays pending until the payment is confirmed on the blockchain — usually a few minutes for Litecoin, Tron or Solana, and up to an hour for Bitcoin. The join page checks for you; you can close it and log in later.
Is there a free trial?
No. The one-off entry fee is what keeps most bots and scammers out. You can look through the list of rooms and read the blog before you join.
Can I get a refund?
The entry fee is non-refundable except where New Zealand law, including the Consumer Guarantees Act, gives you a right to one. Contact us through the complaints page about any payment problem.
Pull up a chair.
Every room, your contact list and private messages — $14.99 once. No subscription, no renewals.