Sexy roleplay ideas for chat: 15 scenarios to try tonight

Roleplay is the secret weapon of sex chat. Give yourselves characters and a setting, and suddenly you're both braver, funnier and a lot naughtier than you'd be as yourselves.

How to set one up

1. Pitch it. "Want to play a little game?" works every time.
2. Agree the basics. Who you each are, where you are, and roughly how it starts.
3. Write in the present tense. "I lean against the doorframe and raise an eyebrow" is more vivid than "I would lean…"
4. Take turns driving. Leave each message with something for them to respond to.
5. Step out when you need to. Use brackets for out-of-character notes: "(this ok?)"

15 scenarios that work over text

1. Strangers at a hotel bar. One of you is in town for a conference. Neither of you is in a hurry.
2. The new neighbour. Borrowing sugar has never been so suggestive.
3. The massage booking. Professional, at first.
4. Snowed in at a ski lodge. One fire, one blanket, a lot of wine.
5. The personal trainer. Somebody needs very hands-on encouragement.
6. Exes who bump into each other. Unfinished business.
7. The boss who stays late. Or the employee who does.
8. A road trip and one motel room. Of course there's only one bed.
9. The bartender at closing time. Lock the door.
10. Firsts. Retell a first date, but this time it goes very differently.
11. The confession. One of you finally admits what they've been thinking about for months.
12. Masquerade party. Masks on, inhibitions off.
13. The house-sitter. Someone comes home early.
14. Dominant and submissive. One gives the instructions, one follows them. Agree limits first.
15. The phone call. A late-night call that turns into something else, see our phone sex tips.

The rules that keep it fun

• Adults only, always. Every character is an adult. No exceptions, and no "ageplay" that involves anyone under 18.
• Fiction only. Never roleplay real, identifiable people.
• Consent applies in character too. If someone steps out of the scene, stop and check in.
• Limits are limits. Agree them up front and stick to them.

Where to play

The Naughty roleplay and Fantasies rooms on Chatroom are made for this. Our AI chat companions love a scenario and will happily take one of the roles, any time of day. Join for $14.99.